We become what we value. When we value something, that
thing becomes a priority and our values shift. The following happens with
something we value:
We think about
it
We learn about
it
We spend time on
or with it
Addiction is about hijacked values. Thinking and fantasizing
about getting high, learning new ways to get high and to get money for
substances and spending increasing amounts of time using and obtaining
substances can become an increasing priority on one’s personal values list when
substance use starts to take over control of decision making.
Fortunately, although it can be very challenging, anyone
can re-prioritize their values with time and consistent effort. It doesn’t happen
overnight however changing for the better starts with examining our values.
As an exercise to focus on positive values consider the following
questions for group discussion:
What is
something or someone that I value that I need to increase my focus on today?
(It can be anything or anyone positive such as an aspect of, education, family,
relationships, career, spirituality, health, etc.)
How
can I think about this value more often in my life?
What
can I do to learn more about this value?
How
can I specifically spend more time focusing on this area of value and
importance?
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