VALUES,
PRIORITIES and SUBSTANCE USE ISSUES
Values and Priorities -
Almost
everyone would agree that there are many people, ideas, goals, and other things
that we value and are important to us. We tend to direct our mind (mental
focus, attention, thinking) and our heart (feelings, desires, passion) toward the
things that we value – (See diagram below)
Ø We all have a limited
amount of time and energy. When we are functioning well, we divide up our
resources to make sure we are prioritizing our areas of value such as family,
work, health, recreation, hobbies, etc.
Values, Priorities and
Problematic Substance Use – When someone is misusing substances that does
not mean that values necessarily change right away. Often what happens is that
when substance use becomes more and more problematic, the substance use can hijacks
some of what we set our mind and our heart on.
Ø When substance use
becomes a problem, it can steal some of the time, energy and other resources we
may have used for other more important life areas.
Ø The worse a substance
use problem gets, the more it may take from other more important life areas. A
“functioning addict” is able to use substances and still save something for
other areas but this can get harder to do as addiction progresses with time
The Role of Values and
Priorities during the Process of Changing and Healing
Re-prioritizing
our values is an incredibly important part of the change process when healing
from a substance use issue. Escaping a lifestyle damaged by addiction involves
getting back to what is most important in life.
However,
this is not automatic. Just because a person stops using or abusing substances,
that does not mean that it is easy to just jump back in to life. To understand
this better, consider the illustration below which involves thinking about when
you were a student in school. Think about and discuss the following:
- · Did you ever stay out of school for an extended period because of being sick? What was it like to come back after being out?
p Most people would agree that getting back into the routine of going to school,
learning, and studying is a challenge after being out sick for a while. Usually
the longer someone is out, the harder it can be to get back into the healthy
routine of school again.
The
same can be true with addiction. The farther that addiction takes and
individual away from the “normal” day to day concerns, values and priorities,
the harder it can be to come back. That is why it is a process that takes time.
That’s why it is okay if it may be taking a while to get your priorities in
order, early in the change process when dealing with addiction. What you can do
each day is make sure to stay focused on re-prioritizing your values in a
positive way and then work on making the changes you need. It’s a process.
Creating Creating a V-MAP -
Values Motivational Action Plan
Your
values can serve as the driving force to keep you motivated in a positive
direction. One way to keep your values and priorities in front of you and in your
daily consciousness is to have a Values Motivational Action Plan.
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